First of all make sure it's connected. It should connect automatically when you start it but you know for sure if you can see a list of "rooms" at the bottom right & the icon in your start up bar turns blue & red.
Click the button called
Search Files.
You'll see a long skinny white box appeared. In that box type a few words from the song tittles &/or atist to help you find the song.
Wait.
While you're waiting you can always click the
Search Files button again, & type in another one.
After about a minute the big box will start filling up with a list of files it found. Scroll through for what you're after & double click it.
If you click the
Transfers button you'll be able to see all the files that are being downloaded & uploaded.
If you have any files you want to share click
Options & select
File Sharing Configuration to specify what folder you want to share. If you're in a queue someone might let you go first if they see you have something they want.
Another thing I found out when I was Goggling my Yohoo on that newfangled Interwebby thingamajig the kids these days are always banging on about is that you can click the
Things I Like button, write
remote: banned in the little box at the top & next-to that click the
I Dislike button. I did that because some Colliwobbles supporter had five classic Australian songs I've been after for years but he "remote: banned" me. After I'd done that I got them!