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Postby phunkyfeelone » Sat May 11, 2019 8:03 pm


Serious answers only please!

I've just started dating a girl, first date she told me she does part time "fashion" modelling, but as dates have progressed she's told me that she does lingerie, swimwear, artistic nude (but not adult\porn). Yes, she is mentioned (under her modelling name) on this site. And had a few people say she was one of their favourite models (back in her earlier days, granted)
Yes, i'm dating her. My head, despite rumours, does not resemble a bucket of spuds :lol:

I know I make lots of comments on here about various models (mostly on the assumption i'd never meet them!), so I'm a bit conflicted here!
Can't ask my mates or family, as they will all look at her differently if they ever meet her.

So, I can't work out how I feel about this -

She deletes and blocks any guys that make sexualised comments about her, but in many ways it's about perception rather than reality.

Would you date a girl that literally thousands of men have seen nude? And continues to do nude work today (it's where she is tonight)
On first thought, many of her followers are men, and i'm a bit weirded out by that, but at the same time i'm dating her and they never will.
We're yet to discuss how or if they get intimate behind the scene - if that happens, i'm out (i'm a one girl guy, and expect the same).

Still yet to work out my own feelings on this...


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Postby narly » Sat May 11, 2019 10:48 pm


Don't know if I could do it again mate . Many moons ago I was dating someone ( not in the same league as your girl by the sounds ) and i could never relax when she went off to work , especially nightshifts , but I'm one of those that keep thinking the worst . This was in the day of no social media or even easy access internet , these day's it would be worse I would imagine . It all comes down to trust I suppose.
sorry , not much help really.


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Postby phunkyfeelone » Sat May 11, 2019 11:22 pm


narly wrote:
Don't know if I could do it again mate . Many moons ago I was dating someone ( not in the same league as your girl by the sounds ) and i could never relax when she went off to work , especially nightshifts , but I'm one of those that keep thinking the worst . This was in the day of no social media or even easy access internet , these day's it would be worse I would imagine . It all comes down to trust I suppose.
sorry , not much help really.


As in just modelling, or “adult entertainment”?

This is purely art (I’ve looked at her work now), It’s making me think about the boundaries.
She told me before we met that she’s monogamous, straight etc.

At the moment the boundaries would be no shoots with guys, no pink bits, no erotic (even with girls), no shoots with an audience (that’s not art, that’s exhibitionism/stripping), no nude video. And honesty.

And I wouldn’t want kids with her. I’m too old for kids, and I wouldn’t want them seeing their mother like that

Even with boundaries, I’d have to reserve the right to say I’m outta there.


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Postby wolverine » Sun May 12, 2019 12:16 am


At the end of the day, it's just a job that pays bills. If she does it for you, is keeping within agreed boundaries (once relationship gets serious) and you're having fun, what's the harm?


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Postby phunkyfeelone » Sun May 12, 2019 12:31 am


wolverine wrote:
At the end of the day, it's just a job that pays bills. If she does it for you, is keeping within agreed boundaries (once relationship gets serious) and you're having fun, what's the harm?


10 years ago I would’ve run away (after getting my end in!).

We haven’t discussed the boundaries yet, other than monogamy.
I kind of had a hunch as she hesitated when I asked about her modelling, some of the stuff is a bit tacky, some of it quite good.

If she doesn’t agree with the idea of boundaries (ie. doesn’t want to be constrained), then I’ll move on immediately- not going to hold her back.

I could try reverse psychology and tell her I used to do porn, if she’s shocked then I’ll ask where her boundaries are...

Good looking girl though, may just be the first regular poster to sleep with a model mentioned on here :lol:


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